To be loved is the most natural state of a person, no matter what gender. The manifestations of this may differ, but the desire to become for someone the one, unique and most important in life is strong for everyone. Self-confident people clearly understand whether they are truly loved, and just as clearly react to a positive or negative answer.

And suspicious people are characterized by torment, doubt, a constant need to find confirmation of this love. The signs of a man's true love for a woman are transparent to the one who experiences the emotions, but will always be in question for the one to whom they are directed. How to determine if a man loves you or does it just seem to you - are there such methods and how do they work?

How to find out if a man really loves - several ways from specialists that can check the presence or absence of deep passion.

• ask directly if a man loves you. The simplest, but not the most efficient. What your chosen one says may not always be true. It is better to observe the behavior than to listen to the words. In addition, if assurances of love occur too often, you should listen to your intuition - maybe he just needs something from you;
• divination. Divination by yourself or ask for help from people who do it every day. By itself, this method is hardly effective enough;
• care. By the way a partner treats his beloved, it is easy to determine the sincerity of feelings. If a man loves you, he will create such conditions for your life to be comfortable and calm. Having learned about problems with electrical wiring or about a broken faucet in the kitchen, he will not wait for your decision or request, but he will offer his help. It is not for nothing that a jacket or jacket thrown over the shoulders of a loved one on a date in the park or along the waterfront has always been an indicator of warmth (in every sense). He will help himself or invite someone who can solve the problem - but he will not leave his lady’s heart without attention to the problem;

• shows that you are the property of this person. A man loves you if he shows others that you are his woman. If he is proud of you, demonstrates to others, emphasizes your importance - as if marking his territory. It is unlikely that he will call you "his beloved", but "my girlfriend" will certainly show affection;
• protection. The companion will do everything to make the woman feel safe next to her. Whether a man loves or plays is evident from this care.
• tests. No matter how accurate and psychologically justified the tests are, they still cannot give a 100% result. You can consider it in combination with other methods, but you should not blindly trust only one.

Signs of love

How to find out if the chosen one loves you, by what signs, so as not to be mistaken and not to take wishful thinking. Psychology suggests different options for how to determine the signs of a man's true love for a woman.

• The words. Phrases that say how they treat you, for example: “I love you”, “I want to introduce you to friends / parents ...”, “How many children would you like?”, “In the future I would like (and in these plans beloved also participates)”, “I worry about you” and similar phrases. The point is that they express their attitude and plans for a joint future.
• Actions. The actions of a man in love will always be directed at you. They will express: caring, involving the chosen one in your life, helping her in any situation, the desire to please with anything and all sorts of attempts to show that now you are a very important part of life. That living together is of the utmost importance. And then any proudly say: "This is my man ..."
• He will never sacrifice a meeting with his beloved for the sake of communicating with friends, going to football or fishing. However, the lady should not abuse this either - having been with her comrades in a comfortable bachelor environment, she would rather want to return to the warmth of life together, while seeing that you value his freedom.
• Indifference to individual details of the appearance of a lady. Reading only the general image created by the clothes, he does not pay attention to the details: the style of the trousers, the cut of the dress. It can give preference to something in the wardrobe, but not reproach that you wear certain things.

• Whether a man really has a feeling can be seen from the fact that he does not turn off the phone for a long time, leaving you without any information about himself. Even if the work requires a long absence, you will know about it right away. The lover will take care of your peace.
• There is no reason for a loved one to hide you from family and friends. Introducing friends and parents is not difficult.
• Strives by all means to avoid conflicts. If a quarrel can be avoided, he will do it while remaining calm. If, nevertheless, a quarrel has occurred, the desire to make peace will become stronger than personal resentment.
• Denial of intimacy on your first night will not be a relationship problem. A man in love has the patience to wait until his beloved is ready herself. And in the future, in sexual relations, he will not manifest himself as an egoist.
• The children of his chosen one will be treated warmly and tenderly. Accepting his lady, she also tolerantly accepts the environment and loved ones that are in her personal life.
• Will take into account the opinion. It doesn’t matter how well you understand the issue, but the very fact of recognizing the right to an opinion is very important if the feelings are deep.
• He will always take a hit on himself, will protect his beloved. On the street, in the store, in transport. In a dispute, he will be on her side, no matter how much she shares her opinion. Can explain, of course, what exactly was, from his point of view, wrong. but not in public, but in private, but in public will stand on one side of the barricades.
• Will share with the girl thoughts, feelings. How was the day, what plans does he hatch, what does he think about the topic of any book, film ... If no topics are discussed in principle, and not because of fatigue or workload, probably not everything is as good as we would like.
• General plans that he builds with you. Not only do you participate in them, but you also play important roles. The complete absence of plans only means that you are not there.
• Women's intuition is a powerful thing, and women should listen to it more often.

Love and Behavior

How to understand if a man loves by gestures and facial expressions? The most effective way, much better than oath assurances of deep and sincere sympathy. So, the gestures with which the male representatives show their attitude towards their beloved.

• Partner's perspective. A long, wandering look across the face, descending on the figure, legs. Some, with such a look, begin to get nervous and examine whether everything is in order with the wardrobe, but these are just feelings.
• Eyes, eyebrows. When meeting, the eyebrows rise slightly, as if you surprised your companion with your appearance. Pupils that dilate slightly when looking at you indicate an increased interest in your person.
• When you come into view, its body turns towards you. Sitting on a chair with your feet and knees facing you also indicates a deep interest.
• Mirroring. When communicating, the partner repeats, and unconsciously, gestures, movements, catches the eye. With deep mirroring, even breathing and heart rhythm can coincide.
• The desire to touch. To accidentally touch something, straighten a curl or a wrapped scarf, hug, touch your arm, shoulder.

How do I know if a person loves me, if all this is not enough. If you are constantly fed breakfast without doing anything today, doubt your feelings. If you asked yourself the question “Does a man love me?”, most likely, you yourself already understand that no. Probably, they themselves have already understood, by hidden gestures, by casually dropped words, by an incomprehensible absence at important moments.

How to know if your lover loves you? Spend the weekend with him. Watch the behavior. If you readily accept the offer to relax together, revive the feelings that, judging by the doubts that have arisen, are slightly crushed. Or take a closer look at whether the spouse has changed recently. In actions, words, preferences. You can check his attitude by asking if he wants children, and how many. What future does he see with you. If you are not married, ask about the possibility of going to the registry office. Refuse sex - look at the reaction.

How to check if he loves

No matter how different the guys are, you can check them in the same ways.

• end the relationship unexpectedly. If in a week he does not appear and does not look for a meeting - not yours;
• will attract your attention in all available ways. The absence of this is an unpleasant sign;
• complain about being bullied at work. Reaction - defense or indifference - will show the truth;
• ask for a difficult favor. Are you ready for an act that makes life difficult for you (pick up in the evening after work, buy groceries on the way);
• a good way is to get sick. The attitude towards a sick person sharply shows the nature of the connection.

How to know if a guy loves you

Any girl in this world would like to know for sure that the guy next to her loves her very much. But how can such confidence appear if asking about it directly is somehow wrong? And the young man himself does not speak and most likely is also embarrassed to confess his feelings.

In our opinion, the only point that will help in clarifying the situation is to watch the guy.

At the moment when we do not want to talk about our feelings, our behavior can give them away. It always strives to demonstrate that a person is dear to us and being with him is a pleasure. Because we constantly think about it.

This can happen to anyone, as well as your boyfriend. And since he was not trained as a child to serve in the intelligence agencies, he will definitely betray his feelings. And you need to watch carefully for his behavior.

How to know if a guy loves you?

How accurate and true is the expression: "My tongue is my enemy." But for now, we'll draw an analogy with your boyfriend. The fact that he will be an enemy, you - the best friend. Delve into his words and try to remember what his love betrays:

• The guy's words are overflowing with warmth and tenderness, so that your heart begins to shrink. Sometimes you even catch yourself thinking that no young man has ever spoken to you with such warmth and tenderness.
• It is logical that in his communication with you there are no swear words. And yes, a large number of guys abuse such buzzwords. I don’t know how, but as soon as the first word breaks out in front of you, it’s as if swear words can no longer be stopped.
• The guy talks about his plans for the future life, and the main place is reserved for you there. In the role of an adored wife and mother of beautiful children. His children. And he does not even imagine a different fate, if you are not present in one.
• Needless to say, he had already visited beautiful places. And in his favorite ones, those that he especially remembered in a special way, he wants to show you. Makes plans for a trip and tries to convince you that this is the best place in the world.
• He takes an interest in your life more than your own mom. And if mothers usually limit themselves to questions about whether you have eaten and whether everything is fine with you at school and work, then a loving guy will never stop on such a list of questions. He will ask everything: how did your childhood go, how do you see your life in old age, what would you like to spend the weekend, why don't you eat seaweed - it is very good for health! He is like a child from the TV program "I want to know about everything!". And at the same time you feel that the guy is not lying. He is really interested in all the moments connected with you.
• And most importantly, everything he asked you - perfectly remembered. It is possible that you yourself forgot how you once told him about red gloves, but he remembered and gave it. In addition, he perfectly remembers both your birthday and other important dates for you. He does not need to repeat that today he should go to your father's anniversary - he remembered this and a few days before the start he asked his boss for time off.

Thus, he asks you everything and remembers, as if an FSB agent, but in fact, he just loves you very much, and tries to do everything so that your everyday questions and plans are the same. Look, or rather listen to his intonation, questions and words, and you will understand how he treats you.

Of course, he often compliments you. He likes everything about you: from your smile to your behavior and way of thinking. He seems to be following all your words, will listen to you carefully and watch with genuine interest.

So the moment has come that can help find out what his gaze in your direction means, and how a guy in love should look.

How to tell if a guy loves you by the look in his eyes

It happens when you suddenly turn in his direction, you suddenly realize that at that moment he was secretly looking at you. The guy can get embarrassed, turn away and say something inappropriate. He wanted to be invisible in his contemplation of your beauty.

• His eyes glow with tenderness, and he himself happily admits that he cannot take his eyes off you.
• His gaze is not irritated when you make any mistakes that are typical for you as a girl. Words that I read in one of the books pop up in my memory. There, the guy called his beloved "cactus" because of her ability to get into stupid and strange situations.
• My boyfriend confirms that "cactus" is a good definition that perfectly characterizes all girls. Your boyfriend won't frown or get stern when you say something wrong when you meet his friends.
• He loves you if he looks at your cat without malice. Wants to accept everything that is dear to you, even if he is allergic to cats.

Here's how, by watching his words and look, you can find out if your boyfriend loves you or uses you to pass the time. There is also another point worth paying attention to. Words are just words, but his actions and deeds also show us the real picture.

How to know if a guy loves you by his actions

You can tell a lot about a guy by his actions. Since, you can chat for a long time, but do nothing at the same time. But if your boyfriend loves you, then he will show his love through actions. Below you will read what guys really do when they love:

• I hope young people will excuse me for my words, but how annoying they are with too much attention! Most likely, and that you do not have time to answer his SMS. He sends them because you forbid calls during work.
• He will help you in any situation. Even if you call him at night just to talk or ask for his help, since your car has broken down. You call him, and you understand that this is the only and right decision.
• If you suddenly get sick, you don't have to worry. He will buy pills, fruit and visit you.
  He loves to spoil you with pleasant little things. And you keep these gifts because they were given with love.
• He likes to organize, or at least he comes to your aid in organizing various events - from daily walks to the store to planning your vacation together.
• Jealousy overcomes him at the sight of how your ex greets you. Give him free rein, he would drive the former out of the country.
• Naturally, the guy who loves you does not allow himself to go out with another girl. No way. Your relationship is very dear to him in order to change your beloved for other girls. Yes, and he is no longer so fun and good with them.

How to tell by gestures that a guy loves you

Gestures are the best tool for psychologists. With the help of them, it is easy to guess whether he loves you or touches you, because decency requires it:

• He won't pat you on the back like his friends. On the contrary, even in a playful moment, the guy always knows about unequal forces.
• Your boyfriend takes your hand or often hugs you in the company of your friends. He likes it, you also enjoy it, girlfriends look with envy, so everything is in business.
• The best gesture, most noticeable in any couple, is if, after intimacy, your young man does not run away from the bed to the shower room, but, on the contrary, you still bask in each other's arms for a long time.

How to know if a guy loves you. Divination

Let's remember why we fell in love with daisies from childhood. The process of fortune-telling on “likes or dislikes” was in the life of almost all little girls. And even now, if you take a flower and tell fortunes with its help, the result of fortune-telling will give you more strength or it can plunge you into despondency. Thus, we gradually come to magical rituals.

So, there are different ways to find out if he loves you or not:

• You need to take a thread and a ring. You will need to thread a thread through the ring and ask a question that concerns you. During fortune-telling, you should be alone. If the ring begins to rotate in the direction of the hands of the clock, the answer is positive, that is, “yes”. If against the direction of the hands of the clock, then most likely this guy does not like you.
• I will tell you about one more very interesting and symbolic fortune-telling - by matches. As they now describe the method on fortune-telling sites: you need to put 2 matches in a box and fix them, then set them on fire. If the matches after burning will tend to each other - get ready for the wedding. And in my youth with my girlfriends I did it in a slightly different way. She took a match, set it on fire and immediately pressed it into the surface of the tree. The match was rooted to the spot, I did the same procedure with the 2nd match. Then she set fire to them and watched whether they would bow or disperse. Sometimes a match could not stand and often fell. And this was a sign that this process should be postponed until the next day.
• Divination on coffee grounds is also common. There are many different books with a detailed description of the divination process. You can also go to fortune tellers, because they are smart - they will come up with and tell you how wonderful everything is in your life.
• Card fortune-telling can sometimes reveal amazing facts, if at the same time you are with a good fortune-teller.
• There is also a good divination called “Mirror Corridor”. A very creepy ritual, with which fantastic, and maybe real stories are associated. Basically, this fortune-telling is done on Christmas night, but it can be done on any other nights. If you are a girl with weak nerves, then here's a great piece of advice for you - do fortune-telling on daisies. Instructions for divination - “Mirror corridor”: You need to be in the room alone, turn off the light, you need to light candles on the sides of the mirror. The mirror must be large. You need to stand in front of the mirror and send another mirror into it, it will turn out, as it were, a corridor. Next, you should ask the question of interest to the mirrors and wait. In a few minutes you will be able to see a shape at the end of the corridor, this is your future boyfriend. It will head towards you through the mirror tunnel. When you see his face, immediately turn away and turn on the light. Terrible events tell that a hand can grab you from the mirror or even pull you into the corridor.

How to know if a guy loves you at 18

Very often, guys and girls who have recently graduated from school do not try to hide their feelings. This is characteristic of them, because in life they have not yet encountered a large number of disappointments. Thus, they do not need torture, they themselves can easily confess their love.

• If the character of the guy is secretive by nature, then he most likely will not say anything about his feelings. He is jealous, feels anger that you cannot guess about his feelings, but is silent. Although, even in this case, you have every chance to reveal his attitude towards you by directly observing his behavior.
• The hasty recognition of the guy is also connected with the fact that the time for military service is coming up. Because any boy would like his girl to send him love letters and faithfully wait from the army.
• He dedicates poems to you and gets offended for no reason.
• He will be jealous of other guys and make scandals because of this.

Any man has the talent to conquer the girl he likes. We need to admire his speeches and exploits.

When a man sees that he is loved and admired, he can do anything and become a millionaire if he wants to. He will be able to give you even more love and tenderness, and you will feel even more beloved and unique girl. This is a necessary rule for harmonious relationships. If this rule is neglected, a prosperous family life cannot be built.

The more things a guy does for you, the more he tries to put his feelings and soul into you. You need to learn to thank a man for everything he does for you. To be the one for which he will move mountains.

It's time to be able to feel the love of a partner and give it. And if you think that your boyfriend pays little attention to you, is rude to you and spends a lot of time in the company of friends - this is definitely your fault. Once you interrupted his passion to do something nice for you. But it's not too late to get it all back. Give him more love, tenderness, affection and care - and he will again reach out to you. I am sure that you will apply my advice and they will really benefit your relationship and you will no longer have to be in search of an answer to the question: “How do I know that a guy loves me?”

Quite often it happens that people have been together for a long time. But for some reason the man is silent and cannot confess his feelings. And it happens that when a man meets you, he does not look away, but he does not take the first step to get to know you or invite you on a date. A declaration of love, even when in a relationship, is a very responsible step for a man, so he does not always have the strength to confess his feelings to his beloved woman. Somewhere subconsciously, every man, being in a relationship or wanting to create them with a woman he likes, is afraid of getting a refusal that hurts his soul.

You, as you can, show your love or sympathy towards him, but you still cannot find out how he treats you, and you really want to know whether a man loves you or not. Despite the fact that a strange soul remains a mystery to you, there are certain signs that help you find out if a man loves you or not.

7 signs a man loves you

So, here are a few signs that will help you find out if a man loves you, or, at least, he cares about you very much.

• A man who is in love with you will always find an excuse to spend as much time with you as possible. If you notice that the man you like is paying more attention to you than usual, you can be sure that this is a sign of sincere sympathy for you.

• It is worth paying attention to the attitude of a man towards you. If he shows tenderness and care for you, without demanding anything in return, then this indicates that he wants to please you, because he sincerely loves you.
• If all your requests do not go unnoticed and unnoticed, and the man tries to fulfill everything, this also speaks for itself.
• If your mutual friends say that in your absence he behaves differently, and with you somehow unusually, becoming either withdrawn or, on the contrary, too nervous.
• If a man's pupils become dilated when looking at you, or vice versa, he looks away and is embarrassed.
• If a man often calls you, he tries to find a reason to meet.
• If he gets in your way in the most unexpected places, you can be sure that he does it on purpose, trying to find any reason to meet you.

How to understand the appearance of a man

To find out if a man loves you, what he feels towards you, it is not necessary to hear declarations of love from him. It happens that the words about love that a man uttered can be an empty sound. But his silence testifies to love for you more eloquently than any words. You can find out if he really loves you by sign language. It is the language of gestures, like nothing else, that can reveal what is hidden in the heart of a man.

If a man is not indifferent to you, at the sight of you he will begin to draw in his stomach, straighten up, straighten his shoulders, and his face will smooth out, become softer. His sexual interest is shown by dilated pupils, a desire to smooth his hair, brush off dust particles from clothes that are not there, straighten his clothes, tie or collar. And a signal that a man loves you and really wants to call you his beloved will be the position of his body during a conversation. The body and arms of a man will be positioned so as to be in a space that unites you, while at the same time isolating you from the rest. If at the same time he, without looking up, looks into your eyes, then this indicates his love for you and even his serious intentions. If he is overwhelmed by the desire to be alone with you, then he will often find himself in an intimate zone, which is located half a meter around you.

Pay attention to emotions

To find out if a man loves you or not, look at the emotions that he shows when he communicates with you. If he is in love, then a smile and laughter will become constant companions of your communication, and if at the same time he constantly looks at your face, then you can be 100% sure that he is in love with you. Serious feelings towards you will betray his intentions to provide you with serious support, a desire to please you or even pleasantly and unexpectedly surprise you.

At the same time, try to remember or find out what kind of relationship he had with women before. If he is a famous womanizer, then there is a chance that his interest in you is caused only by the desire to conquer another beautiful woman, especially if he is married or in a relationship with another woman.

A man in love chooses love

If a man truly loves you, then he will part for you, even with his wife, with whom he lived for 20 years together, and only then will he start caring for you. He will not want to hurt you by having another woman with him, no matter how many years he has lived with her and no matter how hard it is for him to part. If a man is not seen in short novels and is lonely, then his sincere joy at the sight of you and his desire to support you in any situation speaks only of a real feeling of love. Quite often, men at the sight of their beloved woman begin to be embarrassed, and try to show themselves from the best side.

How to know the seriousness of intentions

If you are finally together after a period of courtship and shyness, everything is just fine with you and you already know for sure that he loves you, you begin to be interested in the question of how strong and serious his feelings for you are. This can be found out simply by paying attention to his behavior and the topics of your general conversations. If a man decides to link his fate with you, then he will spend all his free time with you. Whenever possible, he will communicate with you by phone or the Internet, and the number of your dates will increase for sure. He will never disappear for a long time and will not forget to give you once again a bouquet of beautiful flowers. A man who loves will try to please the woman he loves with his care and attention all the time.

Don't be surprised if he soon invites you to meet his parents and sees if he can meet yours. A man is very scrupulous about his family, therefore, he will introduce a woman into the family circle who he really loves and wants to be with her. A man who loves you will definitely become interested in your plans for children and views on your future family. A man will never start a conversation about children with a woman for whom he does not have serious feelings. A truly in love man won't rush you into intimacy, he can enjoy platonic intercourse with you until he feels you're ready. He will not show interest in other women. He will not flirt with strangers, even on social networks, and even more so show interest in your girlfriends.

And now, the fastest way to find out if a man (boyfriend) loves you

You can ask his buddies what he talks about when you are not around. If you are told that he said some unpleasant words about you, do not immediately get upset. Words don't always mean very much. The main thing you should pay attention to, especially if you like this person, is what he says about you. This can only mean one thing, his thoughts are occupied with you, and negative words could be caused simply by a fit of jealousy or a desire to stop asking friends.

A man in love will jealously ensure that other men do not dare to show too frank interest in you, and will forbid friends to do this. By introducing him to his friends, he will protect your interests and help you integrate into his social circle. A good way to find out whether or not your chosen one loves you is an offer to live together. If a man treats you frivolously and does not feel a sense of love, he is unlikely to want to move in with you in order to limit his freedom and take on extra responsibility. If this is love, he himself will offer you to live together in order to get to know each other better.

It is very important at some point in your life to find out whether your man loves you or not. Despite the fact that it is very difficult to understand someone else's soul, there are still some signs that will unmistakably tell you the right answer.

If a man loves, he can confess his love to you in the most original way. This could be a letter if he is young, or poetry to help him express his feelings. He can put on music that will express his feelings for you better than words. When you understand what feelings prevail in the heart of your beloved, you can decide how to proceed. Maybe you should take the first step and offer a too insecure lover to meet or live together, or maybe just open your heart to true love and not waste time on someone who plays with your feelings. Take a closer look at your beloved man, and you will see what was hidden from you.

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In his life, the only and dearly beloved? The answers to these questions, varied and agonizing, make your heart pound and make incredible guesses. You feel like an inexperienced child, unable to think without emotions, and this causes anger not only not for yourself, but also for him. You, like your devoted girlfriends, who know everything about everything, think that his feelings should not only be obvious, but also manifest at every convenient moment. Is this not happening? Why?

Everyone understands and shows love in their own way. While the girl in every possible way shows increased attention to the object of her dreams, shows with her whole appearance that she is interested in him, the guy can not only ignore her, but also hit on the other. Even if the guy does not say that he loves, first - this does not mean at all that you are deeply indifferent to him.

You should come to terms with the fact that such behavior is just a manifestation. Guys do not want (they really do not like) to admit their weaknesses, and love for them is a weakness. Learn to understand the involuntary signs of the body, facial expressions that cannot be controlled, which will give answers to your questions.

Look closely not only at his actions and character traits, but also pay attention to how he behaves when you are around. Compare his attitude towards you and other girls. Does he treat you with respect, listens to your opinion, highlights your intelligence and beauty? This is a clear indicator of indifference to your person.

If a guy loves a girl, he will never allow himself to make fun of your eccentric hobby of collecting toy penguins or collecting candy wrappers. Remember that a real man must yield to his beloved even in cute little things and childish pranks.

A guy in love will always find a free minute for you, even if his day is planned and scheduled to the minute: studying, boxing, writing an important essay, helping a friend move... How do you know that a guy loves you? Even if you can’t see each other, he will always find a few seconds for a phone call in which he will ask about your business, and will not crack non-stop about how tired and busy he is.

A guy who is in love will not humiliate you or insult you. This is a sign not only of the pettiness of his soul, but also of a lack of education. A self-respecting young lady needs to run away from such a headlong. If a guy cares about you, he will never disrespect you: “grope” in public, talk about your shortcomings to friends, discuss your relationship with strangers, won’t invite you to bowling, knowing that you don’t know how to play. In such situations, the words of love are an outright disguised lie, and you should not pay attention to such a person.

How do you know that a guy loves you, plans to develop a serious relationship, considers your presence in his life necessary and irreplaceable? Take a closer look at his actions - they are more eloquent than any words.

In the article you will learn:

How to determine if a man loves you by gestures and words?

Start with yourself

You yourself know that a woman is more emotional, more sensual and more attentive to details than a man. So laid down by nature itself, so that she could understand her little child, could build relationships to create a family.

And such flexibility and range of the emotional sphere allows you to develop psychological stability to life events. This is her power, which manifests itself subconsciously, intuitively and is part of the male signal recognition system in mating games and in relationships.

So, ladies, if you wonder if the faithful loves you- it means that you receive appropriate signals from your partner and are internally sure that the answer is negative. Otherwise, it would never have become the subject of your thoughts.

What is it? Error or truth? Or maybe self-deception? After all, no one canceled hormones, mood swings, which wind us up and prevent us from appreciating the manifested male love and attention. However, sometimes a man himself is sure that he loves, but in reality it turns out to be only temporarily in love, which causes suffering to his partner in the future. Hence, false confessions, weak feelings deeds.

And at this time, a dissonance occurs in the female head, discrepancy between the declared and the real. And also the uncertainty of the future, which the beautiful half of humanity oh how does not like and in every possible way is looking for the truth. In general, the scanning system is created, but works intermittently.

Therefore, to determine if a guy loves you, rate your feelings. You are comfortable with him. Why is it uncomfortable, maybe it's up to you? In your feelings, emotions? Maybe you are insecure in yourself, but not in him? Something prevents you from trusting and being loved, your own self-esteem Or previous experience? Often these questions are enough to understand what is happening.

Gestures and facial expressions

Words can be controlled, but facial expressions, facial expressions are almost always unconscious and uncontrollable. Psychologists have proven that 55% information falls precisely on body language, in words - only 7%!

I will now list whatgesturesmen show love, and you note whether the partner has it or not. Set up your internal scanner.

Words and deeds

Words can also tell about true feelings, despite the fact that they are easy to lie. But there are some tricks that will not deceive you:

In addition, a loving man cherishes his beloved and even the most selfish nature is ready to go for it. concessions. For example, he worries if you come home late. Stay close when you are sick. Builds general plans, introduces the family and seeks to know the family of the future wife. Ready to help, even if it brings him inconvenience.

At the same time, it doesn’t matter what a loved one says, pay attention to the end result - his actions. They will most eloquently tell you the true truth.

Act confidently

But what to do if all the facts are against you and indicate that they are insincere with you, or they are playing for their own purposes? There are several ways:

1. Make it clear or say directly that you want to get married. Yes, this is pure provocation. But a man who loves will take these words quite naturally and without fear. Unless, of course, he does not have a traumatic experience of marriage or has some kind of principled position. I don't think I need to warn you that this method is bad if the relationship is not even six months old.

An individual who is not serious, that is, does not feel love for you, such words get scared and gradually withdraws from your life.

Use these methods or not - you decide. But before you do anything, be aware what do you want to achieve and for the sake of what result it was started. Consider all the possible consequences and be prepared for them. If you have no doubts, act.

As a summary

So, let's summarize. Female subconsciously feels and knows whether a man loves her or not. But sometimes the intuition inherent in nature goes astray due to emotional, hormonal or other reasons.

In order to understand how they treat you and evaluate you adequately, you need to remove internal barriers and distortions. Then you by facial expressions gestures, words, deeds, you will definitely feel true love. If doubts are confirmed, then you can get rid of the deceiver in three ways.

Love you and more! June was with you.

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