Everything about the boomerang method with their own quotes. Boomerang Quotes
He promised to leave her for me. I was happy. After a while he rented an apartment and we began to live together. It was a fabulous time when you can't get enough of each other. Only sex and heart-to-heart talk.
I remember, after a couple of months of our life together, I was at home alone. The doorbell rang. It turned out to be Natasha, my man's wife. She came to reason with me so that I would step back and not destroy their family. She told me to think about their common child. I tried to explain my feelings. She said that I would not give him up, because I love him. And he loves me. We will be together with him, and let her put up with it. For a long time she threw tantrums and scandals, but then they somehow subsided.
After a while, I began to notice that mine behaves inappropriately in some cases. He could break free and run, grabbing my hand to skate. Then he closed himself in, and did not say anything for several days.
So it took about half a year. It began to seem to me that I was mistaken in my love. He's not as romantic as he used to be. And more boring and grumbling. He became very tight-fisted, saved on everything, until another attack of childhood came over him, and he rushed to some childish entertainment.
The relationship ended, I returned to my parents, and life went on as usual.
And six years later I married my peer. Then I was sure that I was not mistaken, it was true love. It was like in Paradise: we fully understood each other, we had the same plans and goals. We were happy and we had a beautiful daughter. Such an idyll only happens in the movies.
I helped my husband get on his feet and start his own business. Things quickly went uphill, he began to earn more. He always had a dream to build his own house. And we began to save up for it. We denied ourselves a lot of things, but we knew for sure what we were fighting for.
We had a great time for twelve years. And then something started happening to my husband. Looking at him, it seemed to me that I had already seen this lost look. It was the look of a man entering a midlife crisis. That was the look of my... that man I met twenty years ago. And later I found out that my husband has a mistress. And, ironically, her name was Natasha and she was twenty-five years old.
He spent on it all our money set aside for. Rented her an apartment. Gave her the whole VIP vacation of our city. He rode her on yachts, took her to the most expensive restaurants in the city, saunas. He rented an apartment for her and fully furnished it.
Somehow I mustered up the courage to call her. I tried to explain that she was causing irreparable damage to our entire family. That she's hurting our daughter. To which I heard the answer I had known for a long time: I love him and will fight for my love.
Once I took the keys to her apartment in my husband's pocket and went to her place. I knew she wasn't at home. Arriving there, I found his things in which he changed clothes. I saw our video camera, which he sort of sold. I took a look at the videos I took. He was filming his beloved and I was overcome by a feeling of hopelessness. I grabbed my scissors and started cutting everything I could see. I cut all her things, even her coat and fur coat. It seemed to me that this was not enough. I squeezed all the makeup out of the tubes and molds. Then I saw a jar of white paint and a brush near the door. Without thinking twice, I took them, went out and colorfully painted everything that he thought of her on the armored door. Then I got into a taxi and went home to collect my things. I returned to my parents again.
The boomerang of life has returned and now I understand it. I don’t know how life turned out for that Natasha, the wife of my adult chosen one. I don't know if they stayed together or divorced. I don't know how she lived all those twenty years. But now I know exactly how much pain I caused her then, and what she went through. Now I want to ask her. And to say that life itself punished me. Then, twenty years ago, I did not understand this. I just didn't know how much pain I was causing. For me it was a game. The game of love. But it’s not in vain that they say: “You can’t build your happiness on someone else’s misfortune.”
I'm not mad at this girl anymore. She is as stupid as I was then. And I don't hold a grudge against my husband. That's how he had a midlife crisis. I can only take offense at myself. Because everything we do comes back to us, multiplied tenfold.
But based on everything that has been said and experienced, I want to say to that adult Natasha - forgive me. Now I understand everything. It won't change your life, it won't make it better and easier. But I sincerely ask your forgiveness. I built my happiness without looking at the feelings of other people. And received loneliness and remorse. And it is quite possible that your life has developed. And now I don’t know if mine will work out ...
They say our lives are unpredictable , however, it is worth taking the time to observe the situations, as you understand: everything in it is interconnected. Although sometimes this connection is very transparent, it is not so easy to notice, sometimes, you just have to look closely - everything is in full view. This fact is especially well traced in the so-called boomerang effect. Many have probably heard about him, but few people take him seriously.
What is the boomerang effect?
What is a boomerang, perhaps everyone knows. This is a throwing weapon that has the property of returning after flying a certain distance. Interestingly, the same effect manifests itself in our lives constantly in our actions, thoughts and emotions. This is told to us, albeit a little allegorically, by old sayings, the same "what you sow, you will reap", as well as some passages from the Bible. These phrases made their way into our lives for a reason: they tell us the right decisions.
What is the boomerang effect? Its essence is that every person throws dozens of such boomerangs every day. These are his words spoken to someone, his actions, his thoughts and emotions. And they will return, and sometimes their return is several times stronger. It is generally accepted that "three times more will return", but this is a rather subjective judgment. But at least what you send to the world in our life it always comes back, but today or in a year it doesn’t matter.
Look here: if you send something joyful, kind to the Universe, you will soon receive something good, whether it be material goods or spiritual ones. If the boomerang you sent is anger, resentment, a bad deed, bad words that hurt the feelings of another person, then expect a retaliatory blow of fate.
How does this law manifest itself?
Imagine:
you are walking down the street, and a man fell on the road, slipped and, it seems, injured his leg. Now you can pass by: in general, it is unlikely that something bad will happen to you in life because of this. However, after a while, you too may need help, and then many will refuse. You won’t even be able to connect the situations with each other: after all, a person fell on the road, and, let’s say, your salary was delayed for a month. But in the first case, you indifferently passed by, and in the second, acquaintances indifferently pass by your problem.
If you help a person, then good can be expected from anywhere. It is only important not to get hung up on the expectation of the "reward", the return of the boomerang.
On this subject, one American writer (- Joe Vitale) there is a very interesting story from own life. In general, in his book, he writes that he understood: if you want to receive something, you need to learn how to give it away. And the case is described as follows: in the distant past, he got into a terrible situation when he had no money at all. In the morning he went to the store: those 4 dollars
what he managed to scrape together in the house would be enough only for milk and bread. There were no prospects.
In desperation, he went to get groceries, but at the crossroads he saw an even sadder picture of life: a husband, wife and child, exhausted, stood on the side of the road with a small poster saying that they had no money, no job, no housing (these were difficult times in the country), and they ask for at least some help. The family did not approach anyone, so as not to be imposed.
The author of the book experienced very conflicting feelings. He himself was almost threatened with starvation, but the sight of a poor family with a child shook him to the core: someone in life was even more unlucky. He gave half of my money father of the family, leaving himself only for bread.
Returning home from the store, he noticed something lying on the ground. These were 20 dollars .
The story is very impressive, and it is not fiction. Since then, the author has thought about the law of the boomerang, applies it to his own benefit and teaches it to others.
It is important to understand that the law does not work with mathematical precision. A thief can be killed - it doesn't have to be exactly something stolen from him. The killer can live a long life of up to 100 years, while being poor, rejected and deeply unhappy. One thing is true: if you give good, you get good; if you give evil, you get trouble. And your boomerang can return both immediately and after years. It is important to understand this both when you do good and when you do something bad to someone.
It is also interesting that the "return" will most likely come from another person, under other circumstances. This is a wonderful cycle of the Universe, a wonderful gift of life, and it must be maintained in a good way.
How to use the boomerang effect to your advantage?
Knowing about the existence of such a wonderful law, it is difficult to resist trying. Even if in life you are an indifferent, callous and prudent person, you can do good deeds for the sake of profit: after all, you will get good things back. And if you are a kind and sympathetic person, it will be doubly pleasant to do good to others.
To understand what exactly your actions are missing, analyze own life. What do you lack, in what area do you lack luck? If there is no love, perhaps you did not give it to someone? No money - maybe they took something from someone else? No health - maybe you need to help someone recover? At least morally direct a person to recovery ... The rule sounds something like this: "What you do not receive, you have denied someone." Again, remember that the connection may be hidden.
Human feelings, like a boomerang,
What you launch into the distance will return in response.
Deception and lies, like a ghostly mist,
Once in a lifetime, it will respond with pain.
Betrayal will return like a lump,
It will descend from the heights of fate like an avalanche of snow.
Trouble breaks out like thunder,
For the pain of the soul - retribution is inevitable ...
To be able to love is a huge talent,
When love without falsehood is given.
And launching a new boomerang,
Just remember that everything will return in response
Love life the way it is!
Love inhaling and exhaling freely!
Sadness and joy - all can not be counted.
Don't judge your lot...
There is a sea of \u200b\u200bhappiness, but also pain ...
There is childhood, youth, but also old age.
And in every time there is a role
And do not refer to fatigue ...
Love life inside and out!
Aware of the occasion, the place,
Space, Time ... Everything is in fate
It's baked like dough...
And the baker is the Master, but the recipe
We are constantly changing
Now we take a loan, then we accept it,
Then add salt and pepper...
And the baker knows what's what,
How and why, when and how much...
Love life without "why",
And there will be so many questions...
Like stars in the sky... You can't count them all...
The answers are found in the heart.
The good news will come to you.
Let the tears in the past remain
My most cherished wish:
To happiness for everyone and everyone!
According to merit was to recognition.
There were no failures at all.
So that there are no sad people on the street.
To not be able to offend each other.
To forget how we frown.
So that they can give their own without pity.
People are nice, because you need so little.
Live according to your conscience and do no evil.
Don't expect rewards for goodness.
And always be able to forgive others.
If I could I would not spare my life.
For all of you to be well.
And let it be alien and superfluous everywhere.
My happiness has found me.
My most cherished wish:
To happiness for everyone and everyone!
So that luck appoints you a date
People say that a person
When he does something good,
That is your earthly, your human age
Extends for at least a year.
And so that life does not disappoint,
And so that you live more than a century,
Walk people, avoiding evil,
And remember that good deeds -
The surest road to longevity!
Judge yourself first
Learn the art of
And then judge your enemy
And a neighbor on the globe.
Learn for yourself first
Don't forgive a single mistake
And then shout to your enemy,
That he is an enemy and his sins are grave.
Defeat the enemy not in another, but in yourself,
And when you succeed in this,
No more fooling around
This is how you become human!
B. Okudzhava
If you didn't come, they won't come to you
If you did not call - and they do not call you
If you did not write - and they will not send you
If you did not give - and they will not give you
If you insulted - and you will be insulted
If you have not forgiven - and you will not be forgiven
If you appreciated - and someone will appreciate you
If you did not help - and they will not help you
If you have done evil - and you will be harmed
If you offended someone - and someone will someday offend you
If you kept silent - and they will be silent about you
If you whispered about someone - and who will whisper about you
If you did not listen to anyone - and no one will hear you
If you condemned someone - and someone will condemn you
And remember that if - it will definitely be.
And the only truth is
That the boomerang will return everything to you in full ...
Mom told me
That life is not easy.
For every mistake
Will have to answer.
But I was stubborn
Proud, arrogant often.
Made mistakes
They need to be corrected.
Fate does not forgive everything
And vilely punish.
But if you stumble
Support, protect.
Because everything happens in life...
She will advise herself.
When the soul opened -
Reward with love.
Hard road
I have walked in my life.
And everything happened:
Fun, joy, pain.
a lot of good people
I met along the way.
Thanks to all of them for everything
Bow for bread for salt.
Thanks for support,
For kindness, attention.
For the gentle sun
Blue for the sky.
Thanks to all loved ones
For first dates.
Thank you parents
For giving life!
Give good to everyone
Throw it in the sea
It won't disappear
And will be back to you soon!
Comfort and warmth
Or maybe a smile
Magical, sweet dream
Fixed bug...
Happy children
Good luck at work...
windless days and
Sunshine on Saturday.
They will come to you anyway
It can't be otherwise
Give good to everyone
And luck will come to you!
Tell me, how much kindness is in the heart?
Where does it get it from?
And as in the midst of the running bustle,
Does it forgive so much and easily?
And why do you always worry
When someone is very, very hurt?
There is always kindness at the ready.
There are so many that there is enough for everyone.
I realized that kindness is like blood:
The more you give, the more will be.
Kindness has a friend - love.
Give more kindness people
The more heat you give
The more you get!
This is the law of giving
Don't you know?
The more you hurt,
riddled with heart,
Yours will hurt more
And nowhere to go.
Everything in our life is a boomerang
Any deed, word.
Traces of closed wounds
Ridiculous shackles…
Everything is imprinted in fate
We change ourselves.
You give me and I give you
Stories without end.
Don't be afraid to do good
Don't listen to those proverbs.
Don't be afraid to truly love
To pain and blood.
Step towards happiness into the distance
Try it, what's up!
Go around the path of trouble,
After all, we are ruled by the word.
The more heat you give
The more you get.
Splash back in full -
Now you know it!
So that God can forgive you
For all sins, fate Lessons
Manage to be honest before Him
Do not judge, there were no reproaches.
Forgive the one who is in a hurry
I offended you not out of malice,
Forgive the one who is even in dreams
It comes to you and worries.
Forgive your parents for
What offended, but loved
Forgive the children, they are yours
Whatever you do in life.
Know how to forgive your enemies -
They are given as a test
Forgive my friends if they couldn't
To understand you is the punishment.
Forgive others, forgive yourself
For everything I did without thinking
And let go of all resentment
Consider all accusations.
And God - the Father, he will forgive everyone,
Who with faith in the heart will turn
To Him on the path of life,
It will help us not to get lost.
And gratefully accept
Any Lesson that is given in life
Cleanse your heart, you understand
That it is now a temple for God.
Us in our life
I want so much...
Know, be able to
And run and fly.
But if the path is daytime
In the soul is not reconciled with God,
Do not reach, do not reach
And don't have time...
What is the power of prayer...
And if it's hard on the way
I always asked the Lord
To give strength to go forward.
My God will always hear me
In prayer, quiet and simple,
He will send me courage from above,
He will give my soul peace.
When it's hard for me, lonely,
When the heart is heavy
And Satan is nearby
He sends his evil thoughts,
Always turned in prayer
To Him, Heavenly Father,
And the heart suddenly liberated
He wiped a tear from his face.
My friend, when there is anxiety in the soul,
Bow before the Lord
Give your problems to God
And pray silently with faith.
There is great power in prayer
The Lord will always understand you
Prayers don't pass by
God's prayers are waiting with love
On the mountain or for joy - it is not known,
Until we live a cyclic period,
Until we answer our lesson
And we will not pass the exam of life honestly.
We all need each other to death,
Although usefulness is not always obvious,
Our positions are not so important,
And we are not always gentle to each other -
It is both embarrassing and embarrassing.
How to know: why do we live with each other?
What holds us together, connects us?
We go through life, and day after day
We get to know ourselves better in each other
And take off your hat in front of the mirror.
We are attracted by the distance of untrodden roads,
And a friend on the road is joy and help.
And we will not consider the syllable high-flown:
God sends us all to each other.
And thank God - God has a lot of us
As for the old people, our world is cruel and stingy,
But everything has a reflection...
Father spills soup on the tablecloth
the son and daughter-in-law are disgusted.
He is blind and deaf, speech is so incomprehensible,
So as not to sit close to him at dinner -
We decided to put him behind the stove,
And put food in a wooden bowl.
But then one day their own baby.
He brought a piece of wood into the hut.
Well, tell us, what are you doing?
Make your parents happy, son!
And the little boy said such a speech,
What truth was able to open in her:
Get old, I'll put you behind the stove,
I make a trough from wood
Give, Lord, the strength to forgive,
Because they don't forgive me
Do not dare to humiliate anyone
For sometimes being humiliated...
Just always be fair
Our hard road...
Do not become indifferent when
Neighbors have anxiety in their eyes.
In doubt - ask the heart
Rather, there can be no advice,
Guilty - ask for forgiveness
It will pay off over the years.
Everyone has a star in the sky
All have deadlines...
Years bring us wisdom
And life brings lessons
Never prove to anyone
That you are good the way you are.
Show yourself daily
That you have both conscience and honor.
Never try to argue
because everyone has their own truth.
Understanding is better to bestow,
than close, melting resentment.
Don't worry about the past, don't
Nothing can be changed there.
Wise experience will calm you down,
Friends will understand and help.
Never live for the future
Though it beckons and calls.
The road helps the one who walks,
And water does not flow under the stone.
Don't blame anyone for failures -
They teach you to be stronger.
And let grievances pour out crying,
everything passes, my friend, do not be shy!
Do you want to be loved in this life?
To start, love yourself.
Learn from nature to be tolerant
And learn the secrets of love.
Keep your spirit, no matter what happens to you,
Accept both sunset and dawn.
If you want life to turn out -
I give you these secrets!
Hello dear readers of my blog! Have you heard that everything in life comes back like a boomerang? Do you know how rich folk wisdom is on this topic? For example, “What you sow, you will reap”, “As it comes around, it will respond”, “Do not spit in the well, otherwise you will have to drink water from it” ... And they are all for a reason, because there is this boomerang law. If only because the entire Universe consists of laws that operate continuously and which we cannot influence.
Features and general information
Both ancient thinkers and modern scientists were interested in this topic, and even psychology and religion did not bypass this issue. No one has exactly been able to unravel the secret of this law, but one thing is clear - it has no time limits. That is, if you have done something unforgivable in relation to another person, you should not expect retribution immediately. Sometimes it happens that misconduct affects even the descendants, who are passed on not only the knowledge accumulated by the family, but also sins, because there is a connection between generations.
Another feature is that the return reaction does not come from the person to whom you did good or evil. It also has the ability to expand. A very important principle that some people miss is that the boomerang even works on our thoughts. Yes, yes, remember, I said that thoughts are material (), energetically charged and equated with actions?
That is, if you thought very badly about someone and mentally wished the worst, this already symbolizes action. The universe will hear the message, only now the charged energy will return to its owner. Even if you helped another person, but at that moment you didn’t want it at all, then the negative that you experienced at that moment will return. Therefore, it is important to defend your boundaries, and gently say “no” to others if you really don’t want to do something. Do not commit violence against yourself and at the same time receive punishment.
The law has its own formula, which looks like this
- All the good things you do will come back to you threefold;
- Everything bad that you do will come back to you tenfold.
Such a big difference because to motivate a person to do good deeds, for which he will receive encouragement.
There are times when a person follows this principle, tries to think positively and does not harm others, but in life, something is still not the way we would like. Then, of course, the easiest way is to question the probability of the work of the Universe and wonder if this law really exists? I have an answer to this question. The fact is that if we expect a benefit, the opposite situation will happen. Is it possible to call an altruist a person who helped the destitute, and is waiting for the recognition of others, or even demands it, accusing him of heartlessness?
The most important rule is to think positively, learn to notice the good in your life, because happiness is made up of small grains of joy. Be grateful for every day you live, appreciate what you have, it is necessary first of all for you. If the style of thinking begins to change to a positive one, you will be in a good mood, then there will be no desire to do dirty tricks to another, and, accordingly, encouragement will arrive. The Universe loves those who know how to appreciate and enjoy life, giving warmth to others.
Good
Do good every day, even a smile sometimes works wonders, because it is a powerful support. Directly set a rule for yourself, every day to do something good and pleasant, not only for yourself, but also for others. Then the world will give you back in time, as they say. And before going to bed, remember how productive the day was.
Envy
Envy is a motivating feeling when there is a desire to possess something that another has. It moves us to action, we can say that envy develops us. This is only when a person understands that it is necessary to make efforts to achieve the same result, and is ready for activity. But, unfortunately, sometimes it happens that for some reason it is easier to get angry at another. Then envy destroys, and not only because you have to keep in yourself feelings of anger, irritation, and maybe resentment of fate, but also because all this energy will then come back. There is only one way out - work on yourself, if you want to - move towards your dream, act, rise with every fall, and over time you will come to your dream.
Revenge
Don't take revenge if you've been hurt. Believe me, holding resentment and anger will only harm your body, there is a risk of getting diseases such as ulcers, headaches, tooth decay, heart problems, and more. If the truth is on your side, over time, the Universe itself will punish the offender. You only need to find a safe way to release negative energy, for example, creativity or sports can help. Then it will be easier to forgive and let go of the situation in order to live on without carrying an unnecessary burden in the form of an image of an offending person.